Affirmations for Managing Anger/Rage

 

 

For most of my life, I have been perceived as the calm and collected friend in my inner circles. People could rely on me when 3 out of 5 friends would turn a good night sour because of unspoken social anxieties or becoming too wasted.

As year 32 sets in, I feel myself becoming this other version of myself. The one who cries when she sees people chanting in unity at a protest and the one who has seen too much continue to bury feelings. Anger has been an emotion I rarely engage with, and I can admit this feeling is uncomfortable. To sit with darkness and claim it as something of my own. I have this slow, festering ball of built-up anger and no idea how to express it.

This month has been about femme rage because every spooky season needs a woman behaving badly, but more importantly, femme fatale movies are a safe way for me to engage with my rage. I love seeing consuming media about bad bitches living their bad bitch lives. So, in the spirit of safely engaging with emotions, here are some affirmations I have found helpful for dealing with my anger. 

Affirmations

  1. I find safe ways to release anger when I am upset.

  2. I acknowledge that I am feeling angry, and this is a reminder to do a breathing exercise. 

  3. It’s an option not to take my anger out on others.

  4. This feeling is horrible, but it will not last forever.

  5. Acting out may be a form of self-sabotage.

  6. I release my anger to make room for clarity.

  7. There are other emotions to explore when I feel angry.

  8. This situation is not worth wasting my cosmic energy.

  9. Engaging in this emotion is uncomfortable, but I am learning to manage it.

  10. It’s okay to take time out to process my emotions.


Hear from other women filled with rage!

 
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